Friday, July 25, 2014


Next week I'm heading West to Idaho and Seattle for a three-week wedding blitz to celebrate some of my favorite people ever. I've been blessed with the ability to work remotely while I'm gone, and though I love my city, am relishing the opportunity to spend 21 whole days away

The first leg of my trip will be a whirlwind of a cross-country flight home to Seattle for less than 24 hours before packing up the car and driving East with my parents for my dear friend Alex's wedding in Sun Valley (first time bridesmaid, y'all!). From there, my mom and I are driving to McCall to spend a few days on Payette Lake with family friends. Then it's another long drive back to Seattle for two more weekend weddings and a whole lot of downtime in my hometown.

The whole experience is shaping up to be a healthy mix of celebrating, relaxing, lake swimming and a bit of work, naturally. As you guys know, I can hardly even take a weekend trip without creating a custom playlist, so a sojourn like this clearly requires an epic assembly of music.

The mood I'm channeling is a mix of nostalgia, Pacific Northwest vibes, mountain and wilderness calm, summertime bliss and classic foot-tapping sing-a-long jams. From The Moody Blues to Dave Matthews, Haim and Bonnie Raitt, this mix sums up everything I want this trip to be.

Full disclosure: With this long trip, I may briefly abandon you all. I'll try to keep up with posting, but sometimes a girl just needs to close the laptop and look at some trees for a while. You know?

Tuesday, July 15, 2014


It's a rare and special thing when I actually go to the movie theater to see a movie. The last time I did, it was for The Wolf of Wall Street, and not until about five months after it came out. I felt especially incentivized yesterday—as we're in the midst of some insufferable humidity here in the city, so when Emily asked if I wanted to see Obvious Child on a whim Monday evening, I was all in. I had read quite a bit about the movie, and figured that a film pegged as an "abortion comedy" starring Jean Ralphio's sister / Marcel The Shell With Shoes On couldn't be bad.

You guys. This movie. Is so good. Jenny Slate is so good. Gillian Robespierre (the writer/director) is brilliant. While it rang especially true for Emily and I as working professionals looking for a good man in New York City who are just shy of 30, the overall message of the story and the comedy are so real and relevant that anyone can identify. (We noted there was a really darling couple in the audience who were definitely over the age of 70, and they seemed to love it.)

This is a film that's great for both cynics and romantics, of which I think I'm a little of both. The plot is strikingly realistic, but woven together with some of the smart story-telling devices we've come to love from classic rom-coms. For these reasons, I walked out of the theater feeling a bit of catharsis and a little like I had been punched in the stomach. 

Reeling from the charm, heart and emotional realness of Obvious Child and oppressed by the stormy, soggy heat of Houston Street, Emily and I retreated to Il Buco to sort out our feelings over red wine and gnocchi with artichoke. The conversation wove from relationships and single life stuff to parents and babies and friends and careers—and back to how attractive Jake Lacy is. You know, standard Monday night stuff.

Moral of the blog post: If you're a human who feels things, see this movie. Just see it. And then lets all talk.

Thursday, July 10, 2014


Late one Thursday night at the end of June, five friends and I took off from Manhattan for Ocean City, New Jersey. Armed with minimal base tans and plenty of tequila, we were ready for a long weekend of beach days, game nights and daily hoagies from the WaWa.

I sort of hate the cliche concept of a "girls trip," but that's exactly what it was, and it was exactly what we needed. No agenda, no makeup and a lot of laughing.

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Wednesday, June 25, 2014


{ Do what you want you will always be mine
Do what you need, yeah, I promise I'm fine }

I don't know what else to say about Summer Heart except that the name says it all. I just discovered this "project" by Swedish musician David Alexander recently, and it's like a mix of Washed Out and Beach House that's been drenched in glittering, guitar-y sunshine. 

If you could record the feeling of a perfect day at the beach and then play it back, Summer Heart is what it would sound like. Currently I can't get enough of the below, "U Got All I'm Looking 4." The vocals are reverbed to sound like they're playing from an old speaker, and the lyrics are so sweet you can't help but feel good when you listen to it.

The weekend is still a few days away, but if you close your eyes and listen, you might get a dose of that peaceful relaxation right at your desk. If you need more of that transportive feeling, check out more of Summer Heart on Spotify, especially "I Wanna Go" and "Beat of Your Heart."

Tuesday, June 24, 2014


I've gotten a fair amount of requests lately to bring back some menswear content to SUILTSOY. As you may or may not know, I've been doing that professionally on the regular over at Lifestyle Mirror, but I thought it would be fun to revisit here. I'm not super hip to my demographics so I don't know how many dudes are actually reading this, which means feel free to chime in if you want more or less of this in the future.

I thought I'd kick things off with a simple concept: Blue—the most essential color in a man's wardrobe. Obviously, this hue never really goes away, but it's currently enjoying a moment in the on-trend spotlight. I've long been partial to navy, but pops of royal blue, cerulean and turquoise add a fresh variety for summer. As for wearing it? The answer is this: wear it all, all together, all the time.

Inspired by our man James Bond over here, I rounded up a few of my favorite unfussy, easy-wearing blue pieces to inspire your style this season.

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Monday, June 23, 2014


Ocean City 2014

This weekend my friends and I are off to Ocean City, New Jersey for a much-needed long weekend. There will be no restaurants, no bars—just cooking and drinking at home, with beach days and bike riding and swimming in between. It's my first beach getaway of the season, and I'm practically jumping out of my desk in anticipation.

Ocean City is an extremely laid-back, quite little town, and our destinations pretty much include the shore, the Wawa, the grocery store and the house. Blessedly, that means there just isn't that much to pack.

For the beach, I'm going to be wearing this amazing and gigantic straw hat I picked up at Harmon last week from Panama Jack (you guys, it was $12) and a men's white shirt over a simple bikini. I'll be reading a borrowed copy of The World According To Garp (It comes highly recommended, have you guys read it?) and listening to a forthcoming playlist (hooray!) on a convenient little Jambox.

Back at the house, I see no reason to wear anything but super-comfortable maxi dresses, like my new favorite from Zara (that's now on sale, by the way), or a pair of cutoff denim shorts.

If only every trip was this easy to pack for, right?

Friday, June 20, 2014


I knew this day would come. For everyone in their mid-to-late twenties, this day comes. The day when you look at your summer schedule and realize that you've entered the years when you're no longer in control of your vacation schedule. Your plans are now controlled (lovingly!) by the parade of weddings, rehearsals, engagement parties and showers your friends and family members have (lovingly!) invited you to attend.

I knocked one (wonderful!) wedding off my list in May, and between mid-July and mid-August I have three more (one as a bridesmaid), plus three rehearsal dinners. That means five different events where a dress of my choosing is required. Doubling up is a must, and choosing from what I've already got is, too. But that still means I'm in the market for a couple new frocks and accessories to get through the season. 

Whether you've got one wedding or six on your docket, you obviously want to look amazing. And with gift registries and travel expenses adding up, you're probably not looking to splurge on multiple designer dresses, shoes and cute little clutches. Neither am I.

If we're going to (lovingly!) drag ourselves across the country and beyond for our nearest and dearest, we might as well talk it out together, right? This post is as much for me as it is for you, as I have yet to successfully and stylishly budget my way through all these events. So click it on through below to check out my best wedding guest style tips and some shopping inspiration, of course.